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Surrender
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For a' That
Friday, 22 January 2021
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Magnet
Monday, 18 January 2021
Consequences
Friday, 15 January 2021
January 15, 2021 Chautauqua
Beth's Ponderings
As I write this, it
is the day traditionally known as Epiphany (January 6) - when the Wise Men
arrived in the Christmas story. But, an
epiphany is about so much more. It’s a
moment of sudden realization that completely changes how you view something. I recently had my own great epiphany as I was
working on my year-end in December.
Now to set the
context, I have been beating myself up as it were for years, especially since
my physical collapse over seven and half years ago, about all things I WASN’T
getting done in my life. And, these
weren’t even big dream (or someday) type tasks, but just regular everyday/daily
tasks that I just couldn’t seem to get around to, or keep on top of no matter
how hard I tried. I was frustrated, more
often than not, at my inability to juggle the various tasks and
responsibilities in my life, as I seemed to drop more and more balls as time
went on.
Since I started
feeling better in 2020, and was able to complete more and more unfinished
tasks, I could also see how much of my life I let slide, not just in the past
seven years, but even in the decades before that. Which led to even more frustration, and
beating up of myself.
Then, as I was
going through paperwork for year-end, I realized that it wasn’t about the balls
(tasks/responsibilities) I failed to juggle at all!
Knowing what I know
NOW, about how sick I truly was, I am absolutely AMAZED that I was able to
function to any degree at all! I should
not have been able to keep ANY balls in the air – and I have no idea how on
earth I managed to keep this newspaper going for 19 years, as well as
everything else I actually was getting done.
Humans are incredibly resilient, and able to accomplish great feats when we are called upon to do so. Never underestimate you capacity to amaze yourself, and cut yourself a lot of slack if you aren’t accomplishing what you think you should be. There could be factors you don’t even know about that are impacting what you can and can’t do in any given moment. Breathe, give yourself a hug, or a pat on the back, and remember that you truly are doing the best you can.
Beth
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January 1, 2021 Chautauqua
Beth's Ponderings
Here we are at the
beginning (according to our calendars) of a brand new year. 12 brand new months, 52 new weeks, 365 new
days, with endless possibilities and opportunities, stretch out before us.
At this point, 2021
is a blank slate just waiting to be filled.
Now some people are
fans of New Year’s resolutions (whether they keep them is a whole other
situation) and have them all made and ready to go as soon as the 1st arrives.
Other people prefer
to pick a “word of the year” to guide them as they journey through the year. The word can reflect a characteristic they
want to embody more, or something they feel they need to bring more of into
their lives.
Some folks take out
their calendars and make plans for every month and week. They like to have their lives completely
mapped out ahead of time. (I personally don’t understand these folks, but still
love them anyway).
There are as many
ways to approach this new year as there are people in the world, as none of us
do the same thing.
What I found to be
most effective for me - which I stumbled upon last year - is approaching life
like it is an experiment. So while I do
have some firm plans in place (ie the Chautauqua publishing schedule, health-related
appointments, and my weekly Zoom meeting with my two buddies in Australia), and
1 main focus for each week (ie a task that I want to complete), I wake up each
morning open to whatever comes up, and whatever I get done.
Some days I get
more done than I expected, and some days end up going in a completely different
direction than I hoped or expected, but I don’t get bent our of shape or upset (other
than the first few seconds reaction), because it’s all an experiment. And we all know that not every experiment
works out, so you just start over and try again.
By treating your life as an experiment, you stay curious and open to more possibilities when they arrive. May 2021 be your best year yet!
Beth
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