Friday 21 June 2019

June 21, 2019 Chautauqua


Beth's Ponderings

   The end of an era arrived very abruptly on Wednesday, June 12 with the passing of my mom, Gale Richardson.

   On behalf of my family, I would like to thank everyone for the kind words, condolences, and for sharing your memories of mom.  Thank you to the staff at the Stettler Hospital, and in particular, the wonderful nurse who was with mom when she passed, and a very special thank you to her hospital roommate, Linda, for keeping an eye on mom.

   I’ve been told while it’s not a surprise she is gone, it really is. 

   Yes, she had been in the hospital for the previous 15 weeks, with the final 2.5 weeks in long-term care.  Yes, she had shrunk down to less than 90 lbs and was in a wheelchair.  Yes, she had had lots of pain and major health challenges for YEARS - in fact, she was sent home from the University Hospital in May of 1996 to die as her internal organs were heavy damaged and scarred following a very severe allergic reaction to a medication, and were operating at considerably less than 50%.

   And yet...despite all of that, she’d always defied the odds somehow, amazing everyone as she continued to live and be a vital presence.

   As Mom was deeply involved in her community, she touched countless lives, of all ages, in ways we probably will never ever know, whether it was through Girl Guides, church activities of all sorts, her various leadership and executive positions on various community boards through the years, her involvement in schools as both a teacher and parent, her creation of ladies’ crafting groups and starting the ECS program in Mirror, or just her interactions with friends and neighbours. 

   Mom will be remembered for her “craftiness” and her homemade goodies and gifts as she remembered birthdays and special occasions. She will be remembered for her encouragement and faith in the children she taught, and the girls she nurtured through Guiding.  She will be remembered for her joking, witty comments, and so much, much more. 


   As one friend told me: “Your mom can’t be gone, she was an institution.”  Yes...Gale certainly was!

Beth


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